One of the relationships that can get old rather quickly is sex, so how to keep it lively and fresh? Role-play with sexy lingerie will put the spice back in the bedroom.

Take hints from romantic novels or movies that both you and your partner enjoy. Try being a princess, albeit a scantly clad one, that needs her prince to come and rescue her. You can be the maiden taken briskly away by her pirate lover. These fantasy worlds work well because they aren’t reality and they feel safe to discover together as you role-play with lingerie.

Put a little reality into your roles and pose as a wonderfully handsome gardener, pool boy or plumber. Take your pick as almost any trade has their share of sexual innuendos. Provide a lingerie outfit for the woman of the house and the blue-collar worker has a chance to slip into a sexy role-playing uniform as well. A little emphasis on the right words and the woman can pay her “hired” man a bonus.

Send your man to school for a little learning. That fantasy that every teenage boy has about their young English teacher can do wonders for imaginative role-play with sexy lingerie under a conservative schoolmarm outfit. It’s a subtle way to have the “teacher” be in control of an unruly student.

Clean up your act and the bedroom while wearing the tried and true French Maid costume. Although it’s from another time and place, the costume is still sexy as ever and drives almost every man crazy. This is the man’s chance to be in control and seduce a willing servant.

Look at lingerie designed for couples who want to experiment with role-playing. Specialty shops have dozens of pairs that can start the imagination running wild. Decide on your comfort level and what areas you want to explore together and what is off limits. With those guidelines, there’s a lot of room for experimentation as you role-play with lingerie.

Gothic Lolita refers to a Japanese fashion subculture that combines gothic, Victorian and Late Baroque styles. Gothic Lolita girls often appear both dark and cute, pairing heavy, black eyeliner with short ruffled skirts and frilly knee-length socks. The cartoonish street style first emerged in the late 1990s and has since spread to North America through its depictions in Japanese movies, animations and comic books. Nowadays as wearing gothic lolita has become a new trend, it may be more fun to create your own look, follow our step below and start to learn something interesting.

First step, look for Japanese animations, movies, comic books and fashion magazines to get an inspiration. Japanese fashion — whether Gothic Lolita or not — differs greatly from American fashion. Cuteness is an essential element in almost all Japanese youth fashion, so you must think beyond the usual gothic look.

Then mix and match your clothes. Gothic Lolita outfits can be very complicated with ribbons and laces. Wear tailored clothes with a solid bodice, but keep the skirt above the knees. Gothic Lolita outfits are often all black or predominantly black.

Accessorize with frilly, girlie things. Sew lace along the edges of your collar and cuffs. Tie a ribbon around your neck and make a large bow. Enhance the look with all kinds of Victorian and Rococo-inspired accessories, such as laced gloved, crinoline, bustles, umbrellas and hats. Combine these with silver crosses and other traditional gothic accessories.

And the last step, wear dark makeup. Dark eye shadow and eyeliner are common among Gothic Lolita girls, but not dark lipstick. In fact, many Gothic Lolita girls wear only light pink lip gloss or no lipstick at all. Gothic Lolita girls also refrain from wearing white foundation. The goal is to look innocent, with just a touch of gothic darkness.

Lingerie has been worn by women since ancient Egyptian times. It’s great for whether you want to impress your significant other or simply feel sexy. It rests next to your skin and is usually worn under clothes sometimes the only person who sees it is you. Here you’ll learn how to get sexy lingerie.

Define sexy for yourself because everyone is turned on by something different. There are a few ideas about what almost everyone thinks is sexy: see-through, sheer fabrics, soft shiny fabrics that slide over your skin, tight, stretchy fabrics like spandex. However, if you feel sexy in stretchy cotton or frilly charmeuse, get that instead because it’s the right choice for you.

Identify your ideal style. Think about what you already have in your collection and what you need. Maybe you want to get some boy leg panties to wear under your jeans or fluttery tap pants to go with a skirt and stockings. Perhaps you only need a loosely fitting camisole and some sexy bikinis.

Ask the person you will be modeling for what his opinion is. There are plenty of people who find flannel pajamas alluring! If you’re an everyday cotton kind of girl, no doubt your man will love you in flannel.

Pick things you will enjoy as a couple. If you both prefer more glamorous looks, opt for some retro-styled bullet bras, a long corset with garter straps attached or a long silky nightgown and robe combination.

Cover up just enough to leave something to the imagination. A bit of mystery is definitely more sexy than revealing everything you have at once. Try a bustier that covers part of your breasts and a pair of sheer stockings that shows off your legs yet doesn’t leave them bare.

Purchase lingerie that accentuates your best features. Smooth undergarments make your clothes look better. Underwire bras and control top body shapers offer support. Low-rise bikinis emphasize small waists and a negligee that’s the right length will make your long legs look fabulous.